5. Nov, 2021

Soul Mates, Love and the universe

Soul Mates, Love and the universe

Many of us would like nothing better than to meet a soul mate. Relationships made for you that are perfect in every way. The romantic notion of sit back wait do nothing and wait. The universe will make sure that everything just falls into your lap.No wonder so many believe in 'soul mates'! Nobody wants to do any work !
What is a 'soul mate ? A little piece of you that is found in another person ? Clearly there are a few gaps within the theory of 'soul mates, especially if we are to believe that we all are individual. A person of like mind ? Well that would be a big jump to go from common thoughts to sharing the same soul.
Surely first would come all of the commonalities. Similar age, timings, education, religious background and personal needs. You don't need a soul mate just a dating agency. A few things to consider before searching for a soul mate. Could it be that every single human being has the same soul ? All the souls are leaves on the same tree ? Fragments of the same massive explosion that gifted us a small spark of energy ?It is very likely that each one of us is connected to the same source. Which means we could fall in love with anyone if we match on - Similar age, timings, education, religious background and personal needs. Back to the dating agency.
Soul connections may not play such a significant part as we first romantically would have ourselves believe. Luck and timings, understanding and personal knowledge. It could be that we are driven by the need to reproduce ? Which is nature's way of helping us choose completely the wrong partner ! Instinct is not a good method of finding a lifelong soulmate.
Attraction may work for the universe, but not for us. Our modern day needs go way past natural selection.